The will to win is not as important as the will to prepare to win.It is very difficult work. 1. Winners set goals and reach Goals 1. Decide now on paper what you want to do. Think big. 2. Deadline-set a specific time period to measure your decision. 3. Discipline-grow to enjoy saying not to your self-experience, see the thrill of reaching your goals through self-discipline. 4. Dream by seeing yourself reaching the goal-see yourself as a winner-eliminate all negative thinking. 5. Daily set goals and reach goals. Its like good grooming, you work at it every day. Keep at it by reviewing your goals again and again. NOTICE THE BIG FOUR-WORSHIP-WORK-LOVE AND PLAY. According to experts the happiest people are those who have learned to develop in these four areas. Worship is your relationship (attitude) to God, Love is your relationship (attitude) to your family and friends. Work is you relationship (attitude) to career or school. Play is your relationship (attitude to hobbies or sports.) The shot gun approach never seems to work, we need to develop the rifle approach of aiming for a targeted goal.
1. How much time do you give to thinking about who you are? 2. How do you feel about your love for your family and friends? 3. How do you feel about your work? 4. What is your feeling towards your work? If we are not satisfied with our Worship, Love, Work and Play we become bored. Boredom is a big factor in our world, causing a lot of frustration because of no purpose. The boredom factor is the difference between your maximum potential and your actual performance. If we can’t feel for others we will be bored. What are we going to do? 1. Begin by writing daily, weekly, monthly and yearly goals. Update them. 2. Study good books. 3. Memorize the five D’s to reach your goal. 1. Decide 2. Deadline 3. Discipline 4. Dream 5. Daily 4. Read good positive Books. 5. Pray, Pray! Pray! A healthy self- image means seeing one’s self as a WINNER. What is self- image? 1. Key to your personality and behavior. Do you change your life? NO! God changes your life!!! 2. Discovery of self-the real you will allow you to experience the Fruits of the Spirit. 3. The mind is the world’s most sophisticated computer. 12 –14 Billion Neuron Cells each capable of storing 1-2 million bites of information. Computers are man made, designed by modeling the computer minds in all human beings. Computers only process information they receive. Garbage in Garbage out. The mind will grow whatever it feeds upon. Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Destructive works, negative ideas, losers should not accept. Dirty books, suggestive music, laziness, are all things we need to sit aside. Self- examination is necessary. 4. Positive thoughts, creative ideas, compliments and praise, constructive ideas, we can create by our attitude. Quality books, inspiring books, plain hard work will allow one to have a good self- image. |