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Hello my name is Jerral Campfield and this web site is dedicated to Moral Recognition Therapy using Biblical principles. Please come back often to join me in understanding Gods hands are outstretched still to forgive.

The Perfect Marriage  E-mail
Contributed by Jerral Campfield   
Saturday, 26 May 2018

The Perfect Marriage
Ginny and I are going into our Sixty-first year of marriage and understand the effort it takes to make sure that the love of the Lord is always present to give one the assurance that all is going to be will, regardless of the circumstances. We were created to make sure we understood the Laws of God as Husband and wife that is seeing one another as important by submitting to God and when we are submitted to God then as a woman we are able to submit to our husband who is the head of the body the seat of reason, wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Man is given the pre-eminence with the right of directing and governing by creation. The desire shall be to your husband and he shall rule over you. This only works when the man is totally connected to God. When there is an uneasiness in this it is the result of sin that has entered into the relationship. The man is the head just as Christ is the head of the Church, the savior of the world. Saving us from evil and supplying everything that is needed and good for her. This is also like the Church is subject unto Christ with cheerfulness, fidelity and humility. Ephesians 5:24.
24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
You might say as a woman this is not right, but note what He says to the Husband Verse 25  Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, Husbands love you wife so abuse is not present, God loves husbands when they love their wives is showing appreciation with all sincerity. Did not Christ love the Church and want the Church to obey Him. This was the love that caused Jesus to die for the Church. Are you seeing it is possible to submit to your husband, for He wants the best for you as God wants the best for the Church. 

So much is required for each, and we should not complain of this divine injunction or instruction. This love which God requires from the husband and the prescribed subjection of the wife will be an abundant return for that love of her husband which God has made her due. God sanctifies the Church and as a Husband he is sanctifying his wife. The verse 26 That He might sanctify and cleanse it, with the washing of water by the word. Oh, that we could always be helping one another, becoming holy without blemish from the least of sins. The glory of the Church is the sanctifying now, so we will be glorified soon. That’s the reason we are to love our wives as our own bodies. This is not in a natural, but in a civil and in a relative sense. No man in his right mind hates himself, however deformed or whatever his imperfections might be.
We are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones verse 30 That the reason He nourishes and cherishes His Church, for all who belong to it are members of His body, this is mystical. We are members out of His body, from the grace and glory which the Church has from God as Eve was taken out of the man. We are one we leave father and mother and cling to one another for they are now one flesh. What a mystery! Christ and the Church one united body. So husband love your wife even as your do yourself and wives see that you reverence your husband. That is love in action, esteeming one another which produces a care to please and a caution lest just offence be given. It is so easy to take control as a woman just like we think God should take more of a control, but we were not given that privilege there is a law of relationship. Husbands submit to God and wives submit to your Husbands and begin to be the light of the world God created us to be.

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